I gave sme advice on another thread about talking to girls, but now i need advice on how to just get a girl to simply be my friend. I don't care whether we go out or not, I just don't like knowing that i know everyone except that person. Advice is recommended. :-\

well, if you just talk to her... no pickup lines, no random coming over to chat when she's never met you in her life.... but if you're nice, and you help her out if she's dropped her stuff all over the place or she's got an armload of books and stuff (i'm assuming this is in a school setting), just holding the door open and helping her out a bit is a good way to get her to notice you... unless she's a stuck-up snob and just expects to be helped if she's having problems :D

but i'm not the best person to give advice, because i only know about 10 guys total off the internet :D so i wouldn't pay too much attention to what i just said, if i were you.

just be friendly. People like people who are friendly and you will make friends. Also get involved in school. When you are in clubs or sports you meet tons of people and the more active you are in school the better your focus on your classes will be, and you will enjoy school much more.

It's just like church if you go in just before service and leave just after how do you expect to meet others and develop relationships.

Good luck and have fun.

oh boy. what next? lol
i don't think i would have any advice for you. sry

just be yourself and be nice; get to know them, hang out. that's really how i've gotten to be friends with guys i know. just...be yourself. it really just evolves from there.

Just walk up and be nice.

yeaaaaaaaaa.... this is a topic that is very simple if you follow some rules: be polite,kind, and BE YOURSELF cause if she like the guy your acting to be how are you gonna act when your friends are around and she shows up.they need to like you for who you are. unless of course you use mind powers.

Just be yourself when you talk to her ;)

Do what that guy in my youth church did.

He just walked up to us [us being my friends and I] and said, "hey, I see you three here every week and thought I'd say hi."

First, you walk up to her and tell her "Hey girl, u lookin fiiiiinnnneeee, baby!" Then after she is done giving you a look of disgust and tells you to get lost, you follow her for the next 5 minutes.

Always keep in mind: "You're the man now dog!"

The next day, while shes at her locker, walk up to her like you be knowing you all that (cause you are). Remember to be wearin your finest threads and bein all bling bling, yo. Then you be like, "Hey baby, hows about you and me drive in my dads shiney new Caddy and catch one of them movies. Maybe we could go see, like, New York Minute or somethin cause I know how you dig Mary-Kat and Ashley." And then she will prob be like "No, that's YOU who like Mary-Kate and Ashley." And you be like "Oh yeah..." And she will firmly tell you to get lost and that if you don't, she be telling her brother who just happens to be the head of the wrestling and football team.

After a week of avoiding contact (and checkin up on your other fine ladies), approach her again. This time, you be bringin up reinforcments... tickets to see Britney. So agrees to go with you as a friend and once at the concert, ditches you when she finds her other friends.

And that, my brotha, is how you hook up wit dem females.

CJ

^that was funny, and yet, a lttle bit repulsive.

terrasin, that was a work of art...

uhhh...interesting...

girls .... dont get involved online

well, if you just talk to her... no pickup lines, no random coming over to chat when she's never met you in her life.... but if you're nice, and you help her out if she's dropped her stuff all over the place or she's got an armload of books and stuff (i'm assuming this is in a school setting), just holding the door open and helping her out a bit is a good way to get her to notice you... unless she's a stuck-up snob and just expects to be helped if she's having problems :D

but i'm not the best person to give advice, because i only know about 10 guys total off the internet :D so i wouldn't pay too much attention to what i just said, if i were you.

i agree with this. but you should treat your male friends just the same as your female ones. dont give the girls any special treatment. if you see someone who you would't mind being friends with then be friendly. Hint Hint. but again if it's someone of a snoby type or bad reputation(not uncool reputations) then stay away so as to not be tempted.

i agree with this. but you should treat your male friends just the same as your female ones. dont give the girls any special treatment. if you see someone who you would't mind being friends with then be friendly. Hint Hint. but again if it's someone of a snoby type or bad reputation(not uncool reputations) then stay away so as to not be tempted.

i also agree with C_N, but the whole 'treat your male friends the same as your female friends' should be clarified... do NOT give your female friends noogies or wedgies or anything like that! ;D and girls don't like the whole insult thing as much... but i was friends with way more guys in high school than girls and it was easier because guys don't backbite as much... but just talking to someone you want to be friends with is a huge first step... if you have anything in common, its a big second step... and feel free to invite future friends to a group event such as youth group or whatever your friends are doing that day...

*sigh* you girls make it sound so easy, i wish all the girls that i know thought like you. hehe.

CJ, dude, yeah, just dude. LOL!!!!!!!!

Wow, CJ...that was amazing...

oh my gosh Terra that was sooooooooooo good.....lololol thanks for putting it in perspective...

that was hilarious, CJ :D

i also agree with C_N, but the whole 'treat your male friends the same as your female friends' should be clarified... do NOT give your female friends noogies or wedgies or anything like that! ;D and girls don't like the whole insult thing as much... but i was friends with way more guys in high school than girls and it was easier because guys don't backbite as much... but just talking to someone you want to be friends with is a huge first step... if you have anything in common, its a big second step... and feel free to invite future friends to a group event such as youth group or whatever your friends are doing that day...

well of course you dont do stuff like that. but i mean be just as friendly and nice to them.

Listen to these people:: But probably not TerraSin, although I love his advice. Just don't use any stupid pick up lines. Yuck. I swear "What's up" is one of the stupidest pick up lines ever--especially when used by skinny, nerdy sophmores.

Listen to these people:: But probably not TerraSin, although I love his advice. Just don't use any stupid pick up lines. Yuck. I swear "What's up" is one of the stupidest pick up lines ever--especially when used by skinny, nerdy sophmores.
What do you have against skinny, nerdy people?! Hehe, yeah pickup lines are horribly overused. Only use them on friends who simply roll their eyes, well, or slap you.... How YOU doin?....

*sigh* I have nothing against skinny nerdy people. Just Aaron. I swear that was the weirdest thing in the world. I am an aide in his sophomore biology class, and he walks up to me, and says "What's up?" then, when I didn't realize he was talking to me, he goes "she's hatin' on me." This from a skinny white boy, whose Way shorter than me.

hey eowyn

How You Doin

:P ;) ;D

>:( *glares: "You're an idiot, please step away" glare* You have no chance mi amigo. :afro:

awwww come on baby give me a chance :'(

lol ok i'm just kidding lol :P

hey eowyn... looks like you need a body gaurd.

Listen to these people:: But probably not TerraSin,

ROTFL!
I really hope no one actually tries that. They might end up with a slap in the face for their time. ;)

CJ

*Runs and Hides*

the title of this thread reminds me of that Grits song: "Tennessee Girls and Dirty South Boys...what what!"

I gave sme advice on another thread about talking to girls, but now i need advice on how to just get a girl to simply be my friend. I don't care whether we go out or not, I just don't like knowing that i know everyone except that person. Advice is recommended. :-\

I guess the best thing is just to act like you would around your friends. Talk about interests, weird things that happened to you, and if you're like me, tell bad jokes. Just that level of hanging out and having mindless conversations really hits that friendship level. That's all I got. See ya!

*sigh* I have nothing against skinny nerdy people. Just Aaron. I swear that was the weirdest thing in the world. I am an aide in his sophomore biology class, and he walks up to me, and says "What's up?" then, when I didn't realize he was talking to me, he goes "she's hatin' on me." This from a skinny white boy, whose Way shorter than me.
Ah, sorry. Skinny nerdy white boy here. Whole programmer bit.... I could try and hit on you, but over the internet that would be even more useless than otherwise. So you are spared.

Thank you! You are merciful :D :D But trust me, if you could see me in real life...you wouldn't look twice..LOL

That is normally the part where I attempt to say something nice about their looks. Unfortunatly, I have never seen you. Drat, foiled again.

Thank you! You are merciful :D :D But trust me, if you could see me in real life...you wouldn't look twice..LOL

Wow Eowyn you jsut burned and insulted yourself. lol ouch

Whatda ya'll think about tomboys? Ya know the girls that hate most other girls except their best friend and love to play with knives,lighters, guns,...BLOOD.

funn!! well, not really, they just kinda freak me out, though normaly, if there tomboys, then there grow out of it while a teen.

So supposedly I shoulda grown out that? People call me a (oh thats a bad word? I didnt know. It means) lesbian now instead of a tomboy. I aint a lesbian

I didn't say that all people grow out of it anyway, if you wanta be like that, its all fine with me. Besides, who cares what people think, I would care what God saw about you, and not others.

my mom used to be a tomboy. oh geez, my grandparents say she would play with [real/live] snakes and keep wild ones as pets and stuff. and personally.. I have nothing about tomboys and sorta what burned-inside said who is man to judge. dont worry about what others think of you. they might call you names that will hurt. but tell them "who are you to judge" but be nice about it.. dont yell it in their face and be snotty.

Nah I was just wondering if anyone understood the connection between a tomboy and a lesbian?

I thought, well, no, umm, no, im not sure, why, you know, I forget.

ok then...

Nah I was just wondering if anyone understood the connection between a tomboy and a lesbian?
tom•boy

Pronunciation: (tom'boi"), [key]
—n.
an energetic, sometimes boisterous girl whose behavior and pursuits, esp. in games and sports, are considered more typical of boys than of girls.
Les•bi•an

Pronunciation: (lez'bE-un), [key]
—adj.
1. of or pertaining to Lesbos.
2. (usually l.c.) of, pertaining to, or characteristic of female homosexuality.
3. (usually l.c.) erotic; sensual.
les•bi•an•ism

Pronunciation: (lez'bE-u-niz"um), [key]
—n.
homosexual relations between women.

Wow Eowyn you jsut burned and insulted yourself. lol ouch
*Laughing* Thanks Nedarbi...I missed that...LOL

i've made it my job to point out peoples stupidity
lol jk

Girls.... you cant live with them, but you cant live without them....

GIRLS... YOU ROCK!! 2ND BEST GOD'S CREATION

lol nice saulg u took the words right out of my mouth. advise on girls watch them they can be crule and meen and brake your hart. but they also can be nice and cool. but they r far and few between.

Girls.... you cant live with them, but you cant live without them....

i'm heard the same phrase only using boys... and also puters :) hehe.

by guitarman: advise on girls watch them they can be crule and meen and brake your hart. but they also can be nice and cool. but they r far and few between.

wha? who says girls are the only ones who break the opposite gender's heart?



sorry, had to play devil's advocate there.

Girls.... you cant live with them, but you cant live without them....

GIRLS... YOU ROCK!! 2ND BEST GOD'S CREATION

and the best would be light, animals, or maybe water.... I can't help thinking there was something else better but it slipped my mind.....lololol

and the best would be light, animals, or maybe water.... I can't help thinking there was something else better but it slipped my mind.....lololol

Yah, Males. :P

This is real confusing... ah, good

*pokes CJ* UNTRUE!!!!! The best thing in the world is superglue. :D

I had a girl today ask me if I thought she was hot... I mean how do you answer that... naturally I answered no, she might look ok, but she's an alcoholic so thats a turn off, she also smokes weed.... so she isnt quite on this planet all the time...

see, what you do when someone asks you a question like that, you convenienly fall down the stairs, or trip, or run into a locker or something. that'll distract her, and while she's distracted, you can escape. :D

Ok, I'm just going to post two mottos I have picked up for this entire subject.

First:
Boys are stupid, girls are mean.

Second:
Heck hath no furry like a woman's wrath.(altered slightly due to being on the board, I wouldn't consider that cursing, but better safe than sorry.)

*gasps* SPELLING ERROR!!!!!!!!!

Oh, and avoid girls who are picky about spelling.

*grins*
i can't help it if i won the city spelling bee.... i got all the easy words :D

*can't find a spelling error*
drat.

Can I have the origin... And then the question that didnt work when I asked it: "Can you spell that for me." I thought it was funny...

hehe.... i know! twas no fair at all..... :D

Spell "spelling" I couldnt believe that...

lol... that's great during the city one, a kid got "aphid" wrong... and another got "anniversary" wrong.... hehe... twas sort of amusing to watch the other kids get the simplest words wrong... :D

Anyhow, back on topic all.
*I'm begining to sound like a mod, shudder*

is it that bad? :P

It defys a part of my personality. Though I figure I'll wind up a mod on a forum simply for ironies revenge some day....

Anyhow, back on topic all.
*I'm begining to sound like a mod, shudder*
hey! >:( jk. ;D

ha, you say back on topic yet we're not back on topic yet...

I noticed but I have no advice to give, and people keep saying things I wish to respond to.

Um, girls don't like it when you smell like fish. There, some advice.

well, actualy, if you smell like fish it can create an interesting topic of discusion between you!

*pokes CJ* UNTRUE!!!!! The best thing in the world is superglue. :D
*pokes C_N* UNTRUE YOURSELF!!!!!!!! the best thing in the world is DUCT TAPE!!!!!!!!!!

the best advice, being yourself, has been said multiple times by various people in various ways. i think that's the conscensus. ;)

& now that we're back on topic, stay that way!!!

clears throat..mi me ma mo mu...ahem..

"mood ring, oh mood ring, oh tell me when you'll bring the key/to unlock this mystery/of girls and their emotions/play it back in slow motion/so I may understand the complex infrastructure known as the female mind..."

*bows* thank you!

A man was walking along a California beach and stumbled upon an old lamp. He picked it up and rubbed it and out popped a genie. The genie said "OK. OK. You released me from the lamp, blah, blah, blah. This is the 4th time this month and I'm getting a little sick of these wishes so you can forget about three. You only get one wish! The man sat and thought about it for a while and said, "I've always wanted to go to Hawaii, but I'm scared to fly and I get very seasick. Could you build me a bridge to Hawaii so I can drive over there to visit?" The genie laughed and said, "That's impossible. think of the logistics of that! How would the supports ever reach the bottom of the Pacific? Think of how much concrete . . how much steel!! No, think of another wish!" The man said OK and tried to think of a really good wish.

Finally, he said, "I've been married and divorced four times. My wives always said that I don't care and that I'm insensitive. So, I wish that I could understand women . . . know how they feel inside and what they're thinking when they give me the silent treatment . . .know why they're crying, know what they really want when they say, 'nothing' . . . know how to make them truly happy . . ." The genie said, "You want that bridge with two lanes or four?

CJ

clears throat..mi me ma mo mu...ahem..

"mood ring, oh mood ring, oh tell me when you'll bring the key/to unlock this mystery/of girls and their emotions/play it back in slow motion/so I may understand the complex infrastructure known as the female mind..."

*bows* thank you!
hehe, i luv that song. "And ive, contrived some sort of a plan, to help me fellow men: lets get, emotional girls to all wear mood rings! so we'll be tipped off, to when they're ticked off, cuz we'll know just what they're thinkin."


lol CJ.

A man was walking along a California beach and stumbled upon an old lamp. He picked it up and rubbed it and out popped a genie. The genie said "OK. OK. You released me from the lamp, blah, blah, blah. This is the 4th time this month and I'm getting a little sick of these wishes so you can forget about three. You only get one wish! The man sat and thought about it for a while and said, "I've always wanted to go to Hawaii, but I'm scared to fly and I get very seasick. Could you build me a bridge to Hawaii so I can drive over there to visit?" The genie laughed and said, "That's impossible. think of the logistics of that! How would the supports ever reach the bottom of the Pacific? Think of how much concrete . . how much steel!! No, think of another wish!" The man said OK and tried to think of a really good wish.

Finally, he said, "I've been married and divorced four times. My wives always said that I don't care and that I'm insensitive. So, I wish that I could understand women . . . know how they feel inside and what they're thinking when they give me the silent treatment . . .know why they're crying, know what they really want when they say, 'nothing' . . . know how to make them truly happy . . ." The genie said, "You want that bridge with two lanes or four?

CJ

lol, that was great.

ROFL that is great....but i would like to say we are not that hard to figure out...is it our fault guys are so stupid?

hahahah JK!!!!!!!

ohhh you know where all the same, guys are stupid at sum stuff, and the same for girls.

hahaha no kidding...me and my friend were just talking about how stupid we are last night lol
and hey who says that guys are so easy to understand!!!!! they are not...ladies come on how many of you wish you could know what goes on in there heads?!?! theyre very confuseing....i know im not the only one who thinks that

your talkin about guys that you can't understand? lol, I know Im confussing anyway.

every guy is confuseing....im serious i dont think theres a guy out that that i really understand all the time....and thats even includeing some of my really close friends that are guys...

Man, I know im confusing, I start talkin, and im like, man, I can't even talk with out being confusing, people probaly get more out of my messages here then people get me when im talkin unless its short.

hahahaha yeah....im the same way...alot of ppl dont understand alot of what i say
i like confuseing ppl....its accually pretty fun hahahaha

Well when I start talkin to someone I don't know, oyu don't want to first thing you say be confusing, becuas then they think your like messed up, or theres something wrong, and the thing is, girls can talk forever, and it makes more since than if I use one sentance, lol. And to make it make more since, I try to say more, but it keeps coming out worse and worse.

hahaha "girls can talk forever" hahaha VERY true..esspecally in the case of this one rite here < hahaha

you know what i hate....when i try to talk to someone i like and the words wont come and you end up saying something REALLY stupid....i HATE that

lol, i've done it before, and I doan't think my face turns red, but my mind thinks it does, which makes me more nervous, and sometimes I start sweating, I look pitiful someitmes trying to talk to girls, and they never get nevous, or im so much trying to get over myself getting embarrased, that I don't notice they are also, weird.

hahaha yeah...you can tell when im nevious cuz just say the stupidest stuff...like i say stuff that pointless alot but its diffrent when im talkin to a guy i like and you can tell....one time i got so scared talkin to this guy i had to hold the chair i was leaning aganst so he couldnt see how much my hands were shakeing

lol, one time, I wanted to talk to this girl I liked, but, I just couldn't speak, I was alone with her for a moment, nothing came out, nothing, ahh, it as kinda annoying.

yeah its really frusterateing when nothing wants to come out...AHH i hate it lol

Its probaly a good thing I didn't talk to her, I would have been like so nevous, and shes like 2 year yonger than me, but shes hot, so I don't care, lol.

it dont matter is shes 2 years younger than you....2 years isnt that much...i would go out with a guy who was 2 years older than me....i know who a dude whos gf was 3 years younger than him...

ya, true, one age I could never imagine like marring or having a gf, is like 10 years, people who do that are like crazy, lol.

yeah....my parents are 10 years apart....and its so weird to think about...when my dad was 20 my mom was 10...its so weird to think about....my mom was 19 and my dad was 29 when they got married so that doesnt seem to weird and when you look at them now it doesnt seem to weird...but like ok when my dad was my age...my mom was only 5...very creepy lol

ya, thats weird, the weirdest thing is to only be 15 years yonger than one of your parents. I know a guy that his dad is like 30, and hes like 16, and his mom is like 25, thtas just weird.

girls are evil stay away

i think the older you get the more the age thing doesnt matter but if your 14 liking some one 5 years younger is sick

As in all aspects of life, it is a matter of correct timing.

ya, thats weird, the weirdest thing is to only be 15 years yonger than one of your parents. I know a guy that his dad is like 30, and hes like 16, and his mom is like 25, thtas just weird.
Is that his real Mom? That cant be possible... his Mom woulda been 9... hmmmm

Well I know someone whos 14 (my age) and her Dad is 70 and her Mom is 60....

actually 15.. that happened to a girl in my church.. she's soo nice too.

no, mabey shes close to 30, I don't know.

i think the older you get the more the age thing doesnt matter but if your 14 liking some one 5 years younger is sick
totally!! Try an 18 year old dating an 12 year old, they had started dating when she was 11 and he was 17, say it with me, child molestation, pedaphile, my fist his face.

actually 15.. that happened to a girl in my church.. she's soo nice too.
the one im talkin about, was just kinda naughty is what her son said to me.

totally!! Try an 18 year old dating an 12 year old, they had started dating when she was 11 and he was 17, say it with me, child molestation, pedaphile, my fist his face.
ya, thats nasty.

geez. that is sick, but how did we get so off topic?

ummm.... I think it was a couple of pages back... anywho... I got dumped recently and I am feeling crummy about that, she didnt have a reason... oh well... I may never know...

Don't you jus hate the "Lets just be friends." Speech... I hate it...

or: "it's not you, it's me" lol

Yes she gave both of them to me at once...

geez... that's rough. i'm sure you'll get over it though, there's plenty more were that came from. no offence to anyone on the boards.

Well the one thing that makes me mad is I spent 100 dollars on a dinner for her one week, the next week she dumps me, and now Im broke and I don't have a girlfriend... but besides that I had no problem with it... :D

lol. :) I have nothing else to say, but it won't just let my put lol and a smiley face. ;)

Well the one thing that makes me mad is I spent 100 dollars on a dinner for her one week, the next week she dumps me, and now Im broke and I don't have a girlfriend... but besides that I had no problem with it... :D

i guess it's settled. no dating for me. :)

hey, dating isntn taht bad, my relationship lasted 1 month, so what? It doesnt mean I havent learened from it, cuz I have... I am actually wiser now...

totally!! Try an 18 year old dating an 12 year old, they had started dating when she was 11 and he was 17, say it with me, child molestation, pedaphile, my fist his face.
ah... yah.... *girly sqeal* eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!

Don't you jus hate the "Lets just be friends." Speech... I hate it...
SOME Girls actually mean it.

Oh and on the topic of wierd guys...I went on a missions trip when I was 13 and this guy was flirting with me. I'm not sure why. Anyways..He thought I was 18. I think he's a moron. There's NO way I looked 18. I was 13. Well, as soon as he found out I was 13, he backed WAY off. It's actually kind of amusing now. I was ticked then. He was 18 BTW.

Girls, are horrible drivers!

I drive quite well thank you very much. Just because we don't feel the "need for speed" doesn't discredit our driving.

Girls, are horrible drivers!Can we please refrain from stupid, immature, just plain wrong, sexist comments such as that? I know plenty of girls and GUYS who drive horribly, and plenty of GIRLS and guys who drive perfectly fine.

95% of the car accidents are because of men...

... because they gave the car keys to the women

hey girls are good drivers....well....the non-ditzy ones are lol

Though, guys are hot dogs, lol, well, if they want to be, but Saulg, guess why guys insurence goes up more than a womans, becuse where wose drivers in the teenage and 20s age group.

yeah, and Ive met some grandma's who are the best, and slowest, drivers in the world...

well, actually, the statistics are against the guys. like the burnt one said, the insurance is higher for guys. studies show that guys are much more likely to drink and drive, speed, get into wrecks, etc. my friend had a sheet with all the stats on them.... i'll have to go find some actual numbers...

ah, here.

Men are more likely than women to be driving at the time of a fatal crash. (NHTSA, 2003)

Male drivers involved in fatal crashes were nearly twice as likely to have been intoxicated (25 percent) – that is, above a .08 BAC – than female drivers (12 percent). (NHTSA, 2003)

Overall, young drivers, and especially, young White males account for a large share of the alcohol-crash problem. (NHTSA, 2001)

The intoxication rate (those over .08 BAC) for male drivers involved in fatal crashes was 25 percent, compared with 12 percent for female drivers. (NHTSA, 2003)

In 2002, 27 percent of the young male drivers involved in fatal crashes had been drinking at the time of the crash, compared with 11 percent of the young female drivers involved in fatal crashes.


or, you can find a loverly chart on who had the highest BAC at the time of a fatal crash here (http://www.madd.org/stats/0,1056,2483,00.html)

The irony being that women get in more crashes. Men's are just more likely to be fatal. Hmmmm, I need to get the source for that statistic, but I don't want to try and track down my old driver's ed teacher...

im tired, he, but, ahhh, ya, I can believe that guy drivers are like more dangerous.

YEAH!!!!
my mom has never gotten a ticket or gotten into a wreck ever but yet my dad has
that should show rite there....and im tellin ya i KNOW both of my brothers will wreck when they drive cuz there just stupid like that

My dads never wrecked before, and I don't plan on wrecking, but my sis has.

In both my parents 40 years of living each, my Dad has gotten multiple tickets, my Mom... only one.

Im saying, its different for different people, becuae I think my dads gotten one ticket, or non, not sure, and the only time that his car was in a wreck, was when he wasn't in it, so ya.

I've never had a wreck, lol but both parents have, only once was it our fault, I was never with them tho. ;)

so what was this thread supposed to be about? oh yeah, not driving, that's for sure. ::]

*sings* I want to ride my bicycle, I want to ride my bike. I want to ride my bicycle, I want to ride it where I like.

I do love my truck. It's never given me a problem. It's a 1997 F-150

Notice the Alien Youth sticker on the rear window. I have 1 on both sides and Skillet posters in the back window. I r ub3r Skill3t pr0m0t3r! >:]

CJ

Nice truck, you should paint it like johns bass, glittery fire on it. lol

geez ill, look what you did. do you even know what the whole point of this thread was? it definetly wasn't to bash girls on their driving skills.

He bashed girls on their driving skilles?

Girls dont drive bad. Amber doesnt drive bad. Does she Ill?

so what was this thread supposed to be about? oh yeah, not driving, that's for sure. ::]
you know, when i posted that, i meant to subtly get you guys back on track.

i forgot that with y'all, subtle is a large mallet on the head. :P

stop talking about cars, driving, & all that stuff. this thread is about how to talk to girls. if the topic goes to talking about guys, then fine, but not cars or driving! that doesn't fit! so, get on topic!

you know, when i posted that, i meant to subtly get you guys back on track.

i forgot that with y'all, subtle is a large mallet on the head. :P

stop talking about cars, driving, & all that stuff. this thread is about how to talk to girls. if the topic goes to talking about guys, then fine, but not cars or driving! that doesn't fit! so, get on topic!

oh yeah, exactly.

no cars? well.. I know! girls like to talk about cars too. It bugs me when guys try to act all cool and not talk about cars or sports around girls.. and this was soo posted like by another person 5 pages ago! ;D wasn't it?

how about learning how to talk to a girl while driving a sport car. that way the guys can drive and the women can talk and everyone gets happy:). that way every way does what there good at. and i drive way worse than any female driver ive ever met. i got most threat to pedestrians for my year book. and the funny thing is that i havent been pulled over once. its because of my jedi powers.

hehe.... you'd think you'd remember that by now, unshakeable.... :D


and some girls don't like talking.... me, i don't generally speak unless spoken to..... and talking just frustrates me usually, because i stutter a bit sometimes....

i like to talk

how about learning how to talk to a girl while driving a sport car. that way the guys can drive and the women can talk and everyone gets happy:). that way every way does what there good at. and i drive way worse than any female driver ive ever met. i got most threat to pedestrians for my year book. and the funny thing is that i havent been pulled over once. its because of my jedi powers.

most crashes are caused by multitasking. lol

yeah, like drinking coffe, while handling your cell phone

or putting on make up. my aunt puts on makeup while driveing all the time

and then crashes at least once a week, right, no jk.

no...shes never crashed herself....oddly enough the crashes have all happened with her hubby at the wheel

lol .

that doesnt seem good

lol hey but i hardly ever go places with her AND my uncle....its usually just her....so im safe!! haha

no cars? well.. I know! girls like to talk about cars too. It bugs me when guys try to act all cool and not talk about cars or sports around girls.. and this was soo posted like by another person 5 pages ago! ;D wasn't it?
lol! :D I know what you mean, its like hullo, some girls do like car & sport talk just like some guys don't like car & sport talk.

Sorry Mike... I know you said to get back on track... so um..

Here we go, lol, you can talk to some girls about cars & sports.

See.. talking..... girls... okay no. I am gonna stop typing now.

yeah thats true...i dont really talk about cars but i do talk about sports! esspecally football i love football.

yeah thats true...i dont really talk about cars but i do talk about sports! esspecally football i love football.
wow, we managed to make it to page 6 before we got completely off topic! actualy we were getting preaty off at the end of 5 but oh well! thats still preaty good for us! :azn: ;D

ok, back to topic! cars! um, no, girls! um, lets see, aperantly all the girls on this board have bright orange sholder length hair, and no mouth. ;)

hahaha i dont....i have a big mouth and i have dark red hair not orange lol

Ain't it great how they want to be your friend right after they rip your guts out?- Ace Levy

Ain't it great how they want to be your friend right after they rip your guts out?- Ace Levy
Hmmm, that would be the voice of a bad experiance there..... lol. Yeah, the whole topic reminds me of a song that someone I know wrote.... "Relationships are the Devil". Amusingly, he is married now.

ive said it once and ill say it again CHICKS ARE EVIL we play mind games and cant make up our minds and often complicate the simplist thigs . and some use physical apperance to get there way (that makes me mad) o since the topic is girls ill give a tip to all the guys DONT MARRY A CHICK IF U HAVE NEVER SEEN HER NATURAL FACE WITH OUT THE MAKE UP. amd ppl wonder why some ppl divorce the day after marriage

Some guys use thier appierance to get their way, too. Guys play mind games, too, and they can't make up thier minds niether, they can often complicate the simpliest things as well.

Come on people.

Not all girls are like that, just as not all guys are.

Psst. *whispers* Most guys can't figure out effective mind games. If they mess with your head it is 9/10 on accident.

i dont intentionally use looks to get my way.....thats just sick....and low...but alot of girls do.
but mind games....yeah i think everyone does that...not just girls

Im too lazy to pay attention to mind games so it doesnt really matter :D

hehe...


and as for using looks to manipulate, that's just... ack. can't stand girls that do that. tho it's kinda funny at times to watch them... :D

Im too lazy to pay attention to mind games so it doesnt really matter :D
*gives high five to bob*

I could play mind games, but I save that for messing with my "intelectual" friends. Playing with Matt's mind is so much fun. Yeah, messing with the girls mind's isn't cool, I smack people for that. Unless it involves nametags..... (yes, there is a story... heck, there are several stories...).

Playing mind games on girls is just sneaky and mean. If you're going to be mean to a girl, do it outright so they won't use some sneaky way of being mean back......lol.

Some guys use thier appierance to get their way, too. Guys play mind games, too, and they can't make up thier minds niether, they can often complicate the simpliest things as well.

Come on people.

Not all girls are like that, just as not all guys are.

*tips hat* thank you buckus. :)

*tips hat* thank you buckus. :)
Your welcome. :) And trippy cool avatar, btw.

just cause i said girls are evil doesnt mean i was implying guys arent its just the topic is girls not guys, and for the record everybodys evil cause the bible says none is good ,but God

Girls are evil mmuuaaahahahhahahaah

Well, I hate guys who think they're so cool(example:They cute their hiar because they think the girls will like them better, talk nasty about girls, say they won't listen to bands with girls in them because the girls aren't hot..etc.)

Girls who are obsessed with boys bug me too, or if they wear really skimpy clothes just to attract boys and stuff.

So, I really don't know what else to say, unless you have a very specific problem(I didn't read the whole thing, or the first page either)

whoa now, slow down a bit, its all called peer pressure, even if you hide it allot, so, in other words, peeeeeeer pressure.

When you "fit" into a clique, it boosts your sense of security and self-esteem.

whoa now, slow down a bit, its all called peer pressure, even if you hide it allot, so, in other words, peeeeeeer pressure.

yeah thats true...there is alot of pressure to be "hot" or "sexy" or whatever...you just have to be strong and fight it

your right untorn88 oh^ im from louisiana 2, anyway i think thoes kind of ppl need to see it should make u feel bad if the only thing that attracts ppl 2 ur self is your body i mean i would feel horrible if i knew for a fact that a guy i was dating only cares about the outside,and another thing i dont get is christan guys who have that mindset, alot of them that i know say there waiting for marriage ,so why do u have to have a hott chick for the time being espicaly if u know shes not marrige material. looking a certain way is over rated if you notice the ideal figure in women has changed over the decades in the 40's they considered a size 12 to be small and all the movie stars were atleast a size 14 and that was ideal and ever since then it just keeps going down until the ppl we idolize arent small enough and need to get there pics retouched. the clothes are getting rediculous in the mall there are skirts so short that the company had to make underwear to match. i personaly think less is more i mean come on leave a little mystery. oh and like the barlow girls say you look hott but your going to catch a cold . one of my mottos are expesive cars dont have to advertise. do you get it ok thats my 2 cents

good points.

ack. and the thing is, it's nearly impossible for a girl to dress modestly these days unless you buy your clothes several sizes too big, because they're all shrimpy, skimpy, form fitting ..... *insert desired noun here*. and i know some places have good clothes, but usually my mom is loath to buy them because they're so expensive... bleah. sorry if i'm off topic, but this is one of my pet peeves... ::]

Sounds fammilar^
See, I'm small, but now all the clothes that are a size small cound fit my little sisters.
And it's kind of sad when they have thongs for little girls(Limited Too, the store of evil)

One thing that bugs me is alot of girls at my school are alcoholics... bad breath... :P

Sounds fammilar^
See, I'm small, but now all the clothes that are a size small cound fit my little sisters.
And it's kind of sad when they have thongs for little girls(Limited Too, the store of evil)

yeah, pretty much everyone who i've talked with has heard that rant... ::]


oh my gosh.... little girls are NOT supposed to be dressing like ..... can't think of a word. :o

I agree it is the most disgusting thing in the entire world ... almost ... yeah

hehe...


and as for using looks to manipulate, that's just... ack. can't stand girls that do that. tho it's kinda funny at times to watch them... :D

Yeah, it's funny, yet sickening.
Seriously, girls do that to me, or they'll say "Well, you have a zit, don't you feel bad about that?"
(People who do that make me angry)

OH MY WORD!!!!!! you have a ZIT!?!? That is like, the totally worstest thing that could ever happen!!!! *screech*

*sarcasm off*



that's pathetic. ::]

^Yeah, I have a few zits.
They're tiny though, and you can only see them if you get REALLY close to my face.
But of course, some people notice everything wrong with everyone else*rolls eyes*

heh... who doesn't have at least a few of those?


funnily enough, the girls who are like that are usually wearing an entire bottle of foundation to cover up their zits.... ::]

Saddest thing I ever saw was a 5 or 6 year old girl who caked herself in makeup. That was just sick. Kids that age should not be worrying about looking hot.

oh that is sad....i mean i only really started wearing makeup last year ....and it wasnt even that much...now i do wear plenty but its not bad...but little girls should not be

Yes, it made me sick to my stomach every time I looked at her. And the fact that her parents let her made it worse. Coulda hurt them... >:( GRRR... Anyways, I only wear eye makeup to draw attention to my eyes cause I think they're purty.

girls like it when you come up to them and say something like 'u look different today... but a good different' that always gets the conversation started when a guy says that to me.... just be nice, and stuff..... and most importantly, be urself cause girls can see right through a guy when he's not being himself and it really turns us off

*gasps* YOU DARE REPLY TO THE ACTUAL TOPIC?!?! :D


kidding.... :D


tis most pathetic when little girls wear tons of makeup. i only use eye makeup, and even then, not much. ::]

but the whole culture these days is pathetic. more than once i've been tempted to go live in a cave all cut off from civilization. ::]

I think 14 is a good age to start wearing makeup, I admit I do wear alot of makeup, but I wear it because I have acne

*gasps* YOU DARE REPLY TO THE ACTUAL TOPIC?!?! :D

but the whole culture these days is pathetic. more than once i've been tempted to go live in a cave all cut off from civilization. ::]
Gollumn tried that, results wern't too pretty :D lol

I know what you mean, this girl behind me in Geomtry class worries about her eyeliner more than her grades... which is quite pathetic...

ha! kinda like what my sister said.. I believe it too.. I believed it for a long time.. girls try way. WAY too hard! so my rant: girls try way to hard to be cool.. esp. when they are flirty for no good rime of reason.

Girls rock!!!

Gollumn tried that, results wern't too pretty :D lol

but think how fun that would be! i could crawl around and say "precious" to myself all i wanted without bugging anyone! :D

I don't own very much makeup..I hope to buy some really nice MaryKay stuff...and thankfully I have no acne! I've been lucky :D

Saddest thing I ever saw was a 5 or 6 year old girl who caked herself in makeup. That was just sick. Kids that age should not be worrying about looking hot.

My sisters always sneak into my mom's makeup, and CAKE it on.
I hide mine too well, so it's a good thing they never get into it.
I find that very sad. :(

well, it was sorta fun to play with makeup and face paint as a little girl, sorta like dress-up. it's sad when they really want to wear it all the time, but just to play around the house, i think it's ok......

Yeah, I just wear neutral colors though, like gray, and my skin tone

I NEVER played with make-up as a child, I was the complete opposite, always playing outside and with video games instead of dolls and all (maybe that's why I didn't start wearing make-up until I was almost 17!). I think it's cute when little girls play with stereotypically 'girlie' stuff; I have a young cousin who gets in trouble constantly for getting into her mom's exensive make-up!

I NEVER played with make-up as a child, I was the complete opposite, always playing outside and with video games instead of dolls and all (maybe that's why I didn't start wearing make-up until I was almost 17!). I think it's cute when little girls play with stereotypically 'girlie' stuff; I have a young cousin who gets in trouble constantly for getting into her mom's exensive make-up!
Blow things up and run outside eh? That explains a bit..... ;)

Hey me neither ;D i didnt wear makeup til i left college! (about 19) i was such a tomboy....i still dont even own a dress or skirt :P

tho guys usually say that girls look better without any makeup....i dunno...a lil bit helps sometimes ;)

Blow things up and run outside eh? That explains a bit..... ;)

Hehe...then blow things up outside, hehe... ;)

ooh blowing stuff up! its so cool i just learned how to make a rocket out of a paper match, its awsome, *ehem* am i off topic?

Yeah, I just wear neutral colors though, like gray, and my skin tone
well, yeah, that's all i wear now, but when i was about 5-6, i remember having a ton of fun plastering wacky colors all over my face..... :D

i never wear makeup. i don;t got the time, or the ability to bother with it.. and to be quite honest.. even guys i see everyday are somewhat shocked when they find out i don't wear it... shows how much attention they pay to it.. but caked on makeup just looks even more fake then anything.. i think alittle is ok though... someitmes

I personally hate makeup. Has a lot to do with wearing it for plays. Turning orange is a bad thing.....

Eh, girls wearing makeup is fine, but it bugs me when they are dependant on it. Normally they look perfectly fine without it. Though I have seen some very interesting looks acheived with it....(hint of goth apparently comming out...)

well guys really shudn't wear make-up anyways...i just find it too weird :o

yes guys wearing makeup is very very weird

not really, IMO.

every guy you see on t.v. has makeup on.

Hehe, and we should emulate tv? ;)

lol. no.

i was just pointing out that guys wearing makeup is more than the "goth" look and is more common than ya think.

:P

I, personally, don't know of any guys that wear make-up (or at least ADMIT to wearing make-up!)! ;)

um, well theres this guy at my school who wears eyeliner... hmmmm

Hehe, and we should emulate tv? ;)
I think you should wear makeup Zilch, some pirty pink eyeshadow, yeah!!

Okay sorry back on topic, um, girls, I am a girl.

I love girls... when my father was about 15 years old (old history) an old fat ugly lady saw my father with a girl, and the she came to my grandfather and said "i saw your son with company" and my grampa said with an angry face "with a girl or with a boy" and the lady replied "well... with a girl" and my grampa YELLED "THANKS GOD! u almost freaked me out!"

hahah funny story, when my grampa tells it

I think you should wear makeup Zilch, some pirty pink eyeshadow, yeah!!

Okay sorry back on topic, um, girls, I am a girl.
No, bad buckus. No pink.

Um, on topic.... I've been told that I would make a very ugly girl....

Please dont prove it :D :P

wow thats scary!

Not as scary as my friend putting a dress on and taking a pic of it to prove to the teacher he doesnt look like a girl, It actually didnt help him, but.... :D

ha ha ha thats funny

^^That IS funny! ;D

Do what that guy in my youth church did.

He just walked up to us [us being my friends and I] and said, "hey, I see you three here every week and thought I'd say hi."
*Sigh* If only it were that easy. You have to look good too, you know. Everyone in this world is a stereotype for this. I haven't met a SINGLE PERSON to THIS DAY, that is both males and females, Christians and non-Christians alike, who don't have some "line" they don't cross. Even I do. But I set my line VERY low. The point is, you have to be good-looking AND thin AND with a good complextion. Life isn't as easy as *just* walking up to them after youth meeting and saying hi. If I had don't that to the girl I like in my youth group she'd ignore me. I'm ugly and it'll be the dawn of never before some girl will drop her border to date me, or to even look me in the eye.

dude, your way too hard on yourself. Nobodys that UGLY (i dont think) after all we were all made after our Creator. And its not just looks anyone could have the looks n whatever but if they have no personality to back it up , its like yea whatever see ya later because believe it or not inner beauty is a actuality well atleast to me .

Sometimes, you can accept what you view as Reality---but move beyond that and not let that determine your personality or actions. For example--I'm also not the slightest bit attractive. However, instead of worrying about it--aside from working out at the gym--I let my personality and love for Christ shine. Unltimately, you only need one girl to think that you are awesome.

beauty is in the eye of the beholder....

Well..that's a cute phrase, but sometimes it is easier to accept Reality than to carry hope in a cute phrase. Trust me, I haven't met a beholder yet!

Sometimes, you can accept what you view as Reality---but move beyond that and not let that determine your personality or actions. For example--I'm also not the slightest bit attractive. However, instead of worrying about it--aside from working out at the gym--I let my personality and love for Christ shine. Unltimately, you only need one girl to think that you are awesome.
I do accept it, but I am allowed to show regret, aren't I? I mean, no woman has come up to me in their right mind and told me I'm ugly. I have to say it for them because they don't want to admit it. I'm hispanic. I'll be honest. I don't even know a lot of Spanish either. The girl I "fell in love with" (trust me, it couldn't have been love, because love between a man and a woman is a mutual feeling) broke my heart. She loved my personality. But I'm ugly, so she avoided me. I had to say around her that I'm ugly for her to admit it. I said that I can't meet women because of my looks -- and she agreed. I accept it just fine. I guess what I'm saying is that I'll probably be single my whole life/until the Rapture because of the looks factor. Trust me, I know you're right. I just wish that I were wrong.

And its not just looks anyone could have the looks 'n whatever but if they have no personality to back it up, its like... yeah, whatever, see ya later, because believe it or not, inner beauty is a actuality... well atleast to me.

I wish more women were like you :P ;)

The first guy I "fell in love with" was not the best to look at, but he had this passion for God that blew me away and I ABSOLUTELY loved. I still miss him. Although, I sort of told him to leave..BUT that is another story.

Really? Nevermind, I give up on myself. I'll try not to post a lot now, 'cause I tend to contradict myself.

Que? Estoy confusa.

Dude... did I miss something? What does being hispanic have to do with anything? Did I miss some post or something?

Wow. I'm even more confused.

you know up there when disicple had said something about bein hispanic? I didn't know where it came from? I think I msut of missed a post?

Dude... did I miss something? What does being hispanic have to do with anything? Did I miss some post or something?
No, don't mind me, I confuse MYSELF even. But where I live, race matters, I'm guessing, because a lot of adults where I live judge me by race.

Hrm. Interesante.

BTW, even though I'm Puerto Rican, it doesn't mean I speak Spanish well :P Weird, huh? I don't even really want to learn Spanish.

Oh..Puerto Rico is so beautiful. *sigh*. I want to minor in Spanish because I think that it is a gorgeous language. But don't let your race play a part in it. I'm French but I don't speak French.

Its not wierd, aren't you mixed you said? Or am I wrong?

I am half Spanish, and dang proud, you know I just hate the fact that people think well their are this or they are that so they have to act a certian way or want this or blah blah.

I am proud of all my blood... from Spanish to the English, all. I want to learn Spanish. I don't know it all that well just yet, but I know some.

What I can't stand is people that are ashamed of who they are or what they come from.

Not saying you are doing this, just randomly ranting.

Okay, um girls, yeah I am a girl. Race shouldn't matter, and if it does, don't bother with those people.

No kiddin'. I'm not PROUD of my race (yes, I am well-mixed, but mostly hispanic) I just am happy about it. I don't bother with the racist type, I just they wouldn't bother me about it... I mean the adults. I mean, Like I can dodge the town sheriff giving me a grudgeful stare.

show you are ashamed it then in a way?

Although..what's wierd is I find guys from other races more attractive. Probably becuase everyone I know is caucasion.

show you are ashamed it then in a way?
No, they just annoy me ;)

wow. I missed alot. That's ok. I tend to be off in my own world. La.

Although..what's wierd is I find guys from other races more attractive. Probably becuase everyone I know is caucasion.
I know what you mean.

The racists? They annoy me, too. But you said you werent proud of it so I didn't know if you were a lil ashamed of the Spanishness... but you said no so guess not.

Eh, people are retarded.

Yeah, I know. I guess I have nothing else to say.