HI. I was wondering I'm at a short break now and wanted to post this , it's not that interesting. I was thinking about something that someone said to me, and I guess it hurt my feelings. They really didn't have the right to judge me like that. It wasn't right for me to get an attitude, though. I regret it, although they were in the wrong. My family and best friend even tell me that I'm going to get hurt one day if I continue acting/talking like I'm upset. However, it just makes me madd when someone says things that they don't even know. Especially when they do it on purpose. These two girls got in a huge fight around here one night. They were yelling and even hitting each other, and i'm just not that type, but do get mad sometimes. Well, do you choose to let things go? Or do you talk back to them?

I use to hold grudges too but not anymore i've learn to let it go i mean theirs no use in saying anything it just makes things worst after, a long time of speaking my mind i've learned nobody wins. Its better just to cool down and remember the verse " be angry and do not sin" dont let the sun go down on you and be angry. I would just let go and bite my tongue its best thing.

It seems like one of the girls were really mad at the other too. The fight could have been prevented, I guess. YOu are right it's probably best to just forgive and forget. I mean they could have gotten in trouble, but people were to scared to do anything here. Everyone around heard it/saw it but were afraid to go out there too. wonder if it was reported.

Reading that made my brain hurt. I'm not sure I understand it cause it seems to be missing the plot. :P

In any event, I don't hold grudges for more than a week. And even then it would have to be something very very bad to make me be that mad at someone. Life is just too short to hate. So why bother? It just doesn't make sense to spend all your time angry at people.

CJ

people will get me mad, and I'll usually tell them exactly what I think of them and then I'll be mad for a couple days, but after I've cooled down a bit I realize that they can't help the fact that they're idiots... they're humans. ::]

i don't let other people get me mad... I don't know why, i just don't...

i don't let other people get me mad... I don't know why, i just don't...
You're cool that way. It just means God is in your heart and that He keeps your temper... well, you don't technically have one. ;)


I can't keep a grudge. My moods switch somewhat rapidly, so I can be happy for a couple hours, then I can be placid... same goes for anger. I can be angry for a day at most, but that's only when I don't get enough sleep the night before.

Sleep deprivation is the only thing that can get me truly angry.

he he, I thrive on insomnia... but thats a different matter...

I used to have a huge anger problem, then I figured whats the point? and gave up...

he he, I thrive on insomnia... but thats a different matter...

I used to have a huge anger problem, then I figured whats the point? and gave up...

Hmmm. yeah, I never figured that I took someone in the wrong way. It's best to just to let it go. You can't always win.

You're cool that way. It just means God is in your heart and that He keeps your temper... well, you don't technically have one. ;)


I can't keep a grudge. My moods switch somewhat rapidly, so I can be happy for a couple hours, then I can be placid... same goes for anger. I can be angry for a day at most, but that's only when I don't get enough sleep the night before.

Sleep deprivation is the only thing that can get me truly angry.

yeah, it's natural to have mood swings or be hurt sometimes or whatever, but I'm saying that I've changed. It's best to just have your own character and be nice, because others will see you as nice or not.