Alright, here's the thing. Two weeks ago my sister stole money from my parents, 200 dollars worth. Her name is Nyssa, but man, she seems so much different then just a few years ago. Anyway, she denied it for a few days, but we finally got a confession out of her when we found her after she ran away last week (what a long night that was.) Today I found out that she's been doing mary jane, and my 13-year old brother did, too. The family's in emotional turmoil, I feel like marching down the street and tearing a new one into one of her suppliers, and we just feel like total, utter crap. Please pray for all this, and guidance for my parents for what to do.

Wow man thats really tough... I sure hope and pray that God will fix all this up.. if i were you, I would not know what to do... alright man just pray on and fight through it man. As my cousin told me once, the humna mind in general is corrupt, and your sister is showing that all too well. Just remember to love them with all ur heart and try to work with them, yes it is hard, but God conquers ALL! Who made the Sun stars moon and Earth? Him. Who can fix a humanly problem by saying "Peace be with you"? Him. Just fight through man I feel sorry for ya man.... Remember, rebuke Satan with the word of Christ.. What can he do to stop the power of the Lord? NOTHING! If no answer comes, wait, pray harder, fast during the day and night when u can, and dont get angry... It will happen in His time! make dissapointment into HISappointment!
God bless ya man and love ya

alorian, i feel really bad for your family. i kno how it is to have such turmoil in the house. my family is struggling emotionally, too. may i ask if your sister will let anyone talk to her or does she have the whole rebellious attitude thing??
i will be praying for you.

I will pray...how old is she? i am so sorry this is happening i bet it is really hard
Madd

mary jane is a illiegal drug right? does it have anothert name

mary jane is a illiegal drug right? does it have anothert name
that would be marijuana. :-\

i'm sorry Alorian. i will be praying for your sister, your 13-year-old brother and your family's sanity as well.

Thanks everyone, I appreciate it. To answer your questions, she's fifteen, and the drug was marijuana, saying that makes me feel so sick, angry, sad, confused. Man, this really sucks. Thanks for your prayers everyone. A sad thing is, she was acting like nothing ever happened today, sickening. I doubt I'll sleep tonight, I'll be fasting and in prayer.

what happens when you try to talk to her?? :-\

I break down

oh man, thats tough... so sorry...

I just wish that she cared; she acts like nothing ever happened, and she wants to do whatever she wants, it makes me feel a little sick.

Ah man that sux big time... those situations have gotta be a heart breaker... dont give up and we all love ya and ur family!

I will Pray that God will give you the words to speak. I had before a situation similar to it except the money thing. The world can make a person be heartless and cold. Stay strong and let God work in you and your family. Keep showing love to your sister.

i will be praying for your situation. my cousin is being the same way that your sister is, she started out also by stealing moneny then got into the drugs then raves and so forth. she is very hooked now. she also doesnt care what anythinks or says to her. its mostly a side effect of the drugs(the not caring part) its taken alot of prayer for her for her to even start coming around to her senses. its taking our grandmother dying to get through to her. most of the time they will only listen to one or two people that they feel safe around. so if you want to try to help her here are some suggestions: try to be her friend and not criticize her, i know it will be hard, but she will learn to trust you this way and open up to you so that you can try to get her to seek help.i have had to do that with a couple of people who have come in and out of my life. some it worked with and other it didnt, but its worth a shot. ill be praying.

Its been a while since we heard from this situatuion, alorian. How is it going now??

Hmmm, I really don't know what to say. I don't know what my parents are doing about it, I'm jsut trying to show her love

i guess thats the only thing you can do, right??

Yeah, that and pray for her, which is what the whole family's doing.

how is it going alorian... is it getting any better??

I'm not trying to sound judgemental of her, but it seems to me that she's putting on a facade of trying to improve herself. She still seems to sacrifice herself and her values for the popularity she has become so dependant upon.

hmm, im sorry man... its really sad when that happens to a person. how many siblings are there in your family?

There's me, my little bro, and my little sis

is your lil sis the one this thread is about??

Yeah, she's the one.

tis sad when its a younger sibling like that... i would feel guilty, like i wasnt a good role model or that i wasnt there for them.

My heart and mind's been through all that, but I ultimately decided that her choices are her own.

yea, thats so true... i feel so bad for you alorian... you have so much going on.

I'll get through it, God's pulled me and my family through before, and He will again.

yeah... hes promised us that.