i need you guys to pray for me b/c i think that i am getting to the point were i hate my mom.
we have a bad relationship, i dont feel the love. i dont think that she really cares about my life. i try to talk to her but she wont listen. i am almost 18 and i will be moveing out soon. i dont want to leave the house with bad feelings for my mom. please pray for me.
God bless
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wow that stinks... umm ill be prayin 4 ya and theres sadly nothin u can really say to her to make her listen... just try ur very hardest to show love while she is not seeming to show it all too well. Its hard to show love like that, and if u r and she isnt taking and giving it, just keep tryin and praying. God bless!

i can relate to what you are feeling and i encourage you to not continue down the path of unforgiveness and hate. my advice for you is to ask the Lord to heal your heart, give you the strength you need to forgive your mom and see her through His eyes. is it going to be easy? no, it takes a daily commitment, a faithful decision, to forgive someone. even when they are closest to you and don't deserve it in your eyes.

trust me, there is freedom when you forgive them and release them from your heart (where bitterness kept them in chains). i believe unforgiveness will effect other relationships in your life when it is just left alone, ignored or run from. for me personally, things got a lot better when i learned to forgive. not only did the relationship with my dad improve, but so did the relationships with others.

i know what you are going through. i went through that when i was younger. my dad utterly dispised me because i was a christian and wouldnt take the time of day for me because he was an athiest. eventually when my faith in God got stronger i forgave him and contacted him. he never appologized for his actions but i forgave him anyway. just forgive her for doing what she is doing and treat her with God's love. as the saying goes kill them with kindness. maybe she might see the light through you.

thank you guys

I'l lpray for you...my relationship isn'tt he best with my mom so i see what you mean. :)