Hey fellow panheads, i dont normally come to this sight, but i have two request one is for my mom and one is for me :( i need you to pray for my mom she is really sick , she is getting better but she is not out of the woods. she is diabetic and few days ago almost slipped into a diabetic coma, we took her to the hospital on saturday she was released sunday luckily it was just a overnight visit, she had been nauseated and did not want to eat which she basically did for two days, she is now back home and eating some, but the other factors involved are keeping her down she was sick before this and she was fighting a case of pnumonia. my mom is the type of person that hates hospitals and when she gets sick its bad, but please pray, the storm is clearing but it could come back.

okay i wanted to take care of the serious problem first now here is the other one. most of you dont know me but iam very much in love with a girl, who is saved, loves the lord, goes to church, and prays to him for guidance. i also know that this fall i am going to propose to her to marry me, next to christ and my family she is the best thing in my life. well her parents have forbidden me to see her ever again, no contact. yes, i am older than her and yes she is younger, she is two months and 8days form turning 18 and i am 22. her parents think that my only intent is to sleep with her. first she is underaged and i will not do that, second we both believe in not having sex until marriage and last ihave been double dating her for the past two years if i were the type of person to do that i would have done it but in their mind it doesn't matter i am some lech who wants there innocent daughter, but i have found the woman of my dreams and when i am with her she makes me a better person she teaches me to follow god, if i am doubting she says hey dont go their i am not going to put with that. the deceptive thing in all of this is her parents when in public with me they say they are happy that i am with her, but behind closed doors, they have done everything fom trying to get me to date other women to breaking us up. and guys i am scarred to death i found out a few weeks ago from her that last july her brother told her that her step father hit him when he got drunk. and now i have no contact with her. my faith is on the point of crumbling. i am in a lot pain with these two issues and i cant do a darn thing :'( i was afraid to even come and bring this up because when i tell someone of this they jump on my butt and say cradle robber how dare you even speak. i am sorry the lord has given me a youngr girl to love, but he has. she knew three years ago that she was going to marry me. and now i know too. please i am not asking for a sermon i am just asking for some serious prayer in my life. i have heard enough from both sides i just want some prayer

I'm sorry to hear about your mom. I will be praying for her. I'll alos be praying about your situation. I was there once and i was the older person also. when i got married to my husband we were 18 and 16. i know what you mean when you say that its hard to bring this up to other people because they do call you a craddle robber, but i dont see it as that. ill be praying for you that everything works out and yall get married.

I'll be praying for you and your mother.

Chris, i will be praying for both you and your mother. I am so sorry about both situations. I would say, really seek the Lord and make sure it is His will for you two to be married. It is so cool how faithful you two are being to eachother. Christ will reward you for your sufferings, just hang in there.