JesusRules08
04-23-2005, 04:45 AM
I got some really horrible news yesterday when i went to my mom's house. I would really appreciate it if you could all please pray for both my family and the Colburn family!

When i got to my mom's house she informed me that that morning Michelle and her buddy Colburn had gone out on a mission to pick up supplies, like normal. However, on their way back they ran over an IED and it exploded. It was only michelle and Colburn in the vehicle. The IED exploded right under Colburn's chair and launched him over onto michelle which saved her from taking the brunt of the scrapnel. Colburn was killed upon explosion. Michelle was seriously wounded having severe scrapnel in her neck and quite a bit in her leg. She has lost a majority of her hearing which they say will be back within a month. They don't know if she will regain full use of her hearing or not. After the explosion Michelle had to spend about 4 minutes returning fire because she was being shot at. She did not know that Colburn was dead. After all firing had ceased she spent the time until the medical helicopter got there trying to stop the bleeding in Colburn's head. She said, "I am trained to try to save the injured, all I could think about was 'I've got to save Colbrun'" She said she didn't even know that he was dead until they loaded his body into the plane with her and she saw the extent of the damage he had taken. He lost both legs and the left half of his face. Had it not been for the fact that he was thrown over onto michelle durning the explosion she would have been killed. In fact, they do not fully understand how she made it out alive.

I am glad that michelle is alive however i am having trouble dealing with the death of Colburn. Michelle and him were like brother and sister. They did all their missions together. Our family took him in as another brother, my mother treated him like a son. We would send him food and other things that he needed. Michelle would look around his sleeping unit and see what he needed and then would send us a list and we would make sure that he got it. Whenever michelle would call he would want to talk to us and he had always said from the beginning that if anything happened he would make sure that michelle was okay. He did. He gave his life so that my sister could be spared. For this I am eternally grateful. He kept his promise to our family and I am glad but at the same time it hurts to know that in the end he had to die in order for my sister to live.

So if you could just keep our family and the family of Colburn in prayers as we all go through this difficult time. Michelle will not be coming home. They are putting her on two days inactive duty and two weeks after that of no driving. They should be holding funeral services for Colburn either today or tomorrow over in Iraq. Colburn will be flown back to the U.S to have a proper funeral and burial here. He was from Frankfort Indiana. My family is torn between going to the funeral here or not. We want to go to pay our respects to the young man who saved my sisters life but yet we are not sure how it would effect his family. Knowing that their family member is dead but michelle is still alive. So pray for us as we will have to make a very difficult decision. I really want to go just to pay my last respects to Colburn and let him know how I appreciate everything he did for my sister. He was with her through her depression when she first got to Iraq. He would call her everyday when she was home for two weeks. He watched out for her until the very end. He kept his promise to our family and in the end gave his life to keep that promise. Even though i did not meet him face to face I feel like I have known him my whole life. He was a wonderful man who will be greatly missed.

Just keep us all in prayer durning this difficult time. Thank you!

April M. Shah
~Philemon 6~

JesusRules08
04-23-2005, 07:57 AM
Just to let everyone know here is the official press release on Pfc. Gavin J. Colburn...

http://www.defenselink.mil/releases/2005/nr20050423-2782.html

Heri Altariel
04-23-2005, 10:16 AM
I think I'm gonna cry. I will pray.

skilletosis
04-23-2005, 12:29 PM
April,
I am so sorry for your loss and yet thankful that your sister will be ok. Here's what I think about your family going to Colburns funeral from the perspective of myself having many family members that have served and as a mom. I think it would be the highest form of respect that you could pay by honoring his service to our country and his fellow soldiers at the funeral should God give you the means to go.

john316
04-23-2005, 12:43 PM
You poor dear....I will certainly pray for all involved in this sad situation....know what its been a long time since i have done this but i feel to type you a prayer right now...

Dear Father
I dont know why these families have to face what they are facing now but I do know that You are in control of all things....I ask that you give peace and comfort to April and her family at this time....we thank you that her sister is safe.

We also ask that you be with the Colburn's family....you said in your word that no greater love has a man then to lay down his life for a friend....and thats what this brave young man did....please comfort all concerned at this time.

We give you all honor and glory father and may you some be praised through all these things.....in your loving name.Amen.

Keep the faith and be blessed

John

theelectric3
04-23-2005, 07:51 PM
amen.

i think it would be good to go to his funeral and pay respects. honoring him for what he did.

panhead04
04-26-2005, 09:45 PM
i sadly can say i know what your going through....on sept. 8 of 2004 one of my former co-workers and a friend was killed in iraq after only being there a week....i didnt want to believe it at first but going to his funeral really helped....it took a while to get through the worst but it still hurts....i have tears flowing down right now after reading your post and im truley sorry for his death and i would suggest going to his funeral.....it will help and i hope your sister returns safe.

JesusRules08
04-27-2005, 03:03 AM
thanks everyone for all your prayers. Colburn's mom got ahold of my mom yesterday and said that she wanted us all to come down Friday for the veiwing. She said she wanted us to be there because she recieved a letter from the army about the whole incident and wanted to give my mother a copy of it in person. She also wanted to talk to my mom about michelle and what had happened friday and about everything. we found out yesterday that Colburn was alive at the time of impact and threw himself on top of michelle to protect her from the blast and that is why he died. So he really was protecting my sister. He is being put in for the bronze medel of honor and a purple heart. Which he deserves.

I don't think i will be able to attend the viewing on Friday because of my work schedule. Since Colburn was not a family member i can only have it off if they don't need me. However, i am still sending flowers and a card. My parents said that they are going to represent the whole family. So if i don't get to go it is okay they would let Colburn's mom know that i am praying for her. So, just pray that this all works out. I want to go to pay my respects to him but at the same time it is going to be very emotional. So just pray for the whole situation.

That is all i have to say right now.

April M. Shah
~Philemon 6~

JesusRules08
04-27-2005, 10:21 AM
I talked to my mom today and she said that tony (michelle's boyfriend) talked to michelle on Yahoo IM and michelle said that they had practice for Colburn's memorial yesterday. She said that colburn had made them promise that if anything happened to michelle or himself they would say something at the other's memorial. Michelle wants to keep her promise but said that when they had practice she tried to get up and say something but she couldn't speak at all. She just broke down and cried. Her sargent told her that if she couldn't say anything at the memorial to not worry about it. If she got up there and just cried people would understand. But michelle looked at him and said "I made a promise to my friend, i am going to keep my promise, i just need time."

Michelle is supposed to go out to drive truck on Friday but she said that she doesn't know if she will be able to do it. She said she told her Sargent that she doesn't know if she will be able to step foot into a truck ever again. he said that if she can't do it they will get her help but she needs to get back on the road. She has no choice at this point. They will give her help for a couple of days but then she will have to do it on her own. She just can't be afraid to ask for help.

So please pray for michelle as she is having a rather difficult week. Today is the memorial for Colburn. I pray that she was able to say something. Tomorrow she will return to normal duty and then on friday she must attempt to go back out on the road. So this is going to be a very strenuous week for her. Just pray for her because she is not a very open person. She usually keeps things to herself. So pray for her this week.

Michelle said that when she was getting bandaged up at the "hospital" that the doctor was stiching a cut on her arm and he got done and said "here, i would like you to have this in memory of your friend Colburn." Michelle looked down and he had put a black wristband (like the livestrong ones) on her arm and it said "Gone but not forgotten" She said she would never take it off for the rest of her life. So as you can tell she is taking it pretty rough. Just pray for her.

Thanks,
April M. Shah

PinkGoo
05-07-2005, 01:04 PM
that is so sad. i know im a little late posting, but i just read that and its so sad. i really respect all of our men and women in the service.

theelectric3
05-07-2005, 02:50 PM
i respect them as well.

april - how is she doing?

Heri Altariel
05-07-2005, 03:18 PM
Yes, I also respect them.

JesusRules08
05-07-2005, 07:20 PM
hey everyone thanks for the prayers. for the full story adn updates please check out my blog site at

April's blog (http://aprilshah.blogspot.com)

thanks for your support.
April M. Shah