My sister got into a fight with my mom today. I was at school when it happened. There was a lot of yelling at first, then, for about an hour, there was a physical struggle between the two, and my sister, Nyssa, put a few holes in the walls. long story short, she split and she says she's crashing at a friend's house. She says she'll come back after a few days cool-down time, but my mom says that she'll only be welcome back if she's respectful and follows the rules. I don't think she'll do this. I went out to find her, and, thank God, I found her. This situation REALLY needs prayer. She's only sixteen. I don't trust the guy she's crashing with. She's attractive, and just about anyone would be willing to... do the bad things you've seen on the news. Please, please pray.


Also...

I had a dream from God this morning

I was in a car with nyssa driving, zach, my brother, and two other people were there. She was driving erratically, and I was afraid I would die if I stayed in there, but she wouldn't stop to let me out. My blood pressure shot WAY up, and I had a stroke. I told them this, they were at first skeptical, but Nyssa finally stopped the car and I got out. The air was cool and fresh, and breathing it made me immediately better.

My interpretation...

Nyssa's steering her life, and nothing I can do will make her change her path. I don't trust her to make the right decisions, because of how much she's messed up in the last year alone, but others do, like zach. If i stay on along with her, I'll die. Not by her doing, but by internal means. Only by getting off will I live. Into the clear, fresh, cool air which I assume symbolizes God.

Please pray I do God's will.

Please pray for my family, and, more importantly, her.

I just found out that's scratching the surface. My mom and I just went through her IM logs, and she's been talking about very sexual stuff w/ her boyfriend. Also, she's making up a new life, a fictional story of what her life is. She, she's just, I'm at a loss for words. She's gone from grace, gone from God, how else could she do this? To my cousin, betina, she's said derogatory things to her, insulting her, and made up lies, very good ones, about her trying to break up my sister and her boyfriend etc etc etc. It goes on and on. Please, I pray, I beg, pray. Even if you don't know me by personalization, or reputation, pray, please. If you know me well enough to, or have something to help, feel free to pm me, or email me ( alorian@gmail.com) But above all, pray for her. Please, she needs it.

Seth

I wish I could give you and your family a big hug right now. :-\

Seth, your sister (and you and your mom) are in my prayers. you'll live there in fact. :)

Thanks guys, it means a lot

Hey man I'll be praying for you.

ill be praying. but ya, i think ur dream means that u just need to let God handle it b/c worriying about it (internal means, as you said) will just make you crazy. i know its nearly impossible to not worry b/c u love her but God has it under control. im praying for u.

><sarah><

Thanks guys, you're a really big help, I appreciate your prayers, they're helping me let go of my worry and trust in God, something I've been needing to do for a very long time. He's moved me tonight...

I just found out this morning - she might be... pregnant.

Oh my gosh. Sure hope not, Im sorry

All last month she was talking to my mom about "what would you do if you found out I had a baby" or "would you ever let me get an abortion?"
She's also been working out her stomach etc to make herself look thinner.
And she's been telling my cousin who just moved back from TN that she had - been - with a few guys.
And with this dirtbag boyfriend she's with now, I wouldn't be surprised.

And with this dirtbag boyfriend she's with now,

i would just like to say that i admire the fact that ur a good brother, i just thought that especially wen i read that sentence. God honors that & that trait will extend to others as well, ur a good guy.

><sarah><

I - don't know what to say. It's inherent.

My parents just found out where she's at, and they're leaving to go get her, in the light of her probable pregnancy.

They didn't get her. Her "friends" are good at hiding her.

Dear Lord God Father, I need you now. Give me all the strength you have to give me, all your wisdom. I put my trust in you. Take care of her, surround her, cover her with your protection and angels. Comfort my family, Lord, and help us to trust you. We can do nothing, but you are powerful. Take care of her, I know you will, oh faithful one, Lord God Father I love you and I need you now. It's in your son Jesus Christ's name that I pray, Amen.

I'll be praying Seth :-\

Aw, man... I'm so sorry for the pain you and your family are going through. I know the whole pregnancy thing is really tough. Recently three of my unmarried friends have all gotten pregnant within a few months of each other. I've seen how it totally has destroyed their lives and their releationships with their families. I'm so sorry the same is going on in your situation. I feel your pain, and if you ever need to talk, feel free to contact me.

(I know it's hard, but you seem like a really good brother. Being a girl and the oldest in my family, I wish alot of times I had an older brother like you. Keep strong...)

I always wanted a big brother too, Liz...someone to watch out and protect you!

Seth, keep asking God to reveal more about the dream. Encourage your parents to remember who the REAL enemy is. I'm continuing to pray for you all.

Thanks guys, you all really mean a whole lot to me, I love and appreciate you all.

If she's going to have a baby, it might really open up her eyes. "Hey, look at this, my actions aren't going to affect only me, but a little one too."
Hopefully

Thanks again everyone, the prayers are much appreciated.

My sister called my mom, she's on her way to pick her up, then right away do a pregnancy test.

Do you hear that? It's the sound of weak, false hopes falling apart...

She's still refusing to do anything right, she says no matter where she's taken, she'll still run away. As far as I know, they're on their way to give her a preg test right now.

They didn't get her. Her "friends" are good at hiding her.

Dear Lord God Father, I need you now. Give me all the strength you have to give me, all your wisdom. I put my trust in you. Take care of her, surround her, cover her with your protection and angels. Comfort my family, Lord, and help us to trust you. We can do nothing, but you are powerful. Take care of her, I know you will, oh faithful one, Lord God Father I love you and I need you now. It's in your son Jesus Christ's name that I pray, Amen.


Amen. Jehovah Shalom, let your peace rest on Seth and his entire family. You are El Roi (The God who sees). You know what the family is going through. You know what Seth's sister is going through. how she is hungry for love and acceptance. I plead and apply the blood of Jesus over her and ask that You protect her and keep her safe. I ask for Your mercy and grace to rest on her. Bring across men and women across her path to share Your love with her. It's not enough to know You in our minds. We need You in our hearts. And i ak that whatever it takes for her to come back to you, that it would happen. to save her from a worse fate. Forgive us, Your body, for failing to share Your love with this hurting generation in an effective manner. may we all rise to the place that You want us - obedient to the call. You love her and want the best for her. You say in Your word (James 1) that if anyone lacks wisdom all we need to do is ask You. So Lord, i ask on behalf of this family that You will give them wisdom. wisdom in this situation and how to be the parents and siblings that she needs right now. You also say in Your word that in all our getting, get understanding. So Lord I ask, on behalf of this family, for understanding as well. It is one thing to say we know Your love for others. It is another thing to gain understanding and catch a glimpse of how much You love people. And through understanding, we receive the power and boldness to walk in Your truth. For You are Truth.

Thank You Lord for Your love, mercy, grace, peace and joy. May everyone involved in this situation be drawn closer to You (including the boys she has been with and the potential father of this child - if she is indeed pregnant. mercy on the baby as well, Lord).

I thank You Lord for Your faithfulness. You are wonderful and beautiful. In Jesus' name, Amen.

Thanks tracy :) :')

The cops pulled her out of that house this morning at 1:00 AM, and last I knew she was at a designated "safe house", a close family friend who are strong Xians. (Our families have been friends since before I was born, close to 25 years)

Thanks for the prayers everyone, they're really helping.

your welcome Seth. glad to hear she is at a safe house.

Eryeah, she ran away from there yesterday. Their daughter and her boyfriend, who are moved out, have probably hidden her, again. The boyfriend is an illegal immigrant, but the INS won't deport him because they're too swamped. A sherriff, though, is watching him, waiting for him to drive w/o a license etc. My mom and the PD think he stashed my sis at his aunt's house.
We found out she was muling, too. It's used to transport either drugs or stolen goods, and make them unfindable by a pat-down.

wow. there's no end to all the crap. :-\
im so sorry, man.

No there isn't.

She's home safe.

She had a bad, bad experience on friday night, but that stuff isn't fitting for these boards.

If you want to know, in order to have better knowledge to pray or whatever, it'll probably be in my myspace.

(yes, please refrain from going into graphic detail on the board...re-read the rules for our explanation (http://www.panheads.org/boards/showthread.php?t=241))

that is tragic at what your sister is going through (and has opened up for herself). we'll keep praying. remember you are not forsaken in all of this. Christ is with you and in Him we find our strength, peace and comfort.

I fixed it tracy, sorry 'bout that.

I'm putting it up on the aforementioned site

(no problem. thanks for understanding and i'm sorry about the stuff your sister is going through.)

I'm so sorry about everything that has happened, and is happening, I've had a lot happen in my life, but unfortunately I can't completely relate to your situation, I wish I could so I could be more helpful, I'll be praying for you, and if you ever need to vent, you can e-mail me, or message me online, I'm all ears, and I'll do my best to support ya.

thanks :)

(psst: you should edit that post: it should say "fortunately" )

That is sad, hopefully things will get better. Somethings are hard but they happen anyways.

IF they can't work it out, it can cause problems for them later on.

wow..im so sorry.....i will totally be praying for her..

Thanks jess, btw, congrats at your renewal!!

I just saw this thread.

Crap.

Praying.

Thanks :)

We've been getting threats from one of the - major perpetrators - . It called my mom and demanded he speak to my sister, he was denied permission, and he said he's gonna come out here...

Lord, I pray that you would put a hedge of protection to encircle Seth's home. I pray you would give Seth and his parents perfect peace, and wisdom to even minister to these people.

I pray for these people, that they would see Your Light in all of this, Your Love, and that they would begin to hunger to be released from the horrible bondage that they are in. I pray You would lead people to them who can help them and show them the way.

Now I pray Seth will trust You completely, and lean on You, and feel that peace. I pray he will begin to see Your glory unfold in this situation.

Thank You Father for loving us. Thank You for Your awesome power! Thank You that You can bring good from any situation!

Thanks lisa :)

Lord, I pray that you would put a hedge of protection to encircle Seth's home. I pray you would give Seth and his parents perfect peace, and wisdom to even minister to these people.

I pray for these people, that they would see Your Light in all of this, Your Love, and that they would begin to hunger to be released from the horrible bondage that they are in. I pray You would lead people to them who can help them and show them the way.

Now I pray Seth will trust You completely, and lean on You, and feel that peace. I pray he will begin to see Your glory unfold in this situation.

Thank You Father for loving us. Thank You for Your awesome power! Thank You that You can bring good from any situation!

amen. yes Lord. thank You Daddy for always being with us...You are so wonderful and i take this time to simply honor and bless You for being You.

how's the situation, seth? any better?

My sister seems to be back to normal, which is a mixed blessing... I don't know if she learned anything...

She's dropped out of school and is going to get her GED, but my parents said they aren't going to pay for it, or her court costs, and much else that she needs, so yesterday she got a job.

Unfortunetly, I don't really see God moving too much in her life, but I'm praying for her, and I don't know her heart so who knows?

true. God seems to work from the inside out. so just because we do not see anything, doesn't mean He isn't working. but continued prayer is good. i'll remember her in my prayers.

(thanks for an update, i was wondering how things were going..)

She seems to be fully "recovered" from what happened. She's back to normal, which isn't a good thing. She was on the phone with someone talking about getting drunk and other stuff, not good :-\

We are continuing to pray.

Perhaps God is allowing her to bring all of these people into your life for you to minister to.

I've only met one, her boyfriend. It disturbs me, though. I thought it'd be a wake-up call, but apparently not. She seems as she did the day before she initially ran away :-\ I've got nothing to do but pray, though, and trust God. Wish there was something more to do, but there isn't.

so, i'm sorry if i wasn't paying attention... but is she pregnant like you mentioned she might be?

No, thankfully, she's not. (There's info at http://www.myspace.com/alorian)

i am prayen

I'll be praying!