as some of you may know i have strong opinions on girl/guy relationships and they are scattered all over the message bord in different topics and i just wanted to know what everyone else thought ??? it could be about todays fassion,dating , things that tick you off about the opposite gender.or an experience you want to share . let the post ing begin :-*

what about girl/guy relationships? What types? Friends, dating, marrying or wot...

its a broad subject because i want a broad response just any thing you you want to say or put two cents in about guy /girl relation ships of any kind

I just may have to post in this thread once I gather my thoughts....and I find the time to fix my computer. :)

I could say alot about relationships ;) ...

But all I have to say is...Love can be a wonderful thing if you find the right person... :)

But be careful on who you choose to fall in love with...because sometimes..it can lead to heartbreak that will hurt like nothing you've ever felt before...but, sometimes, you learn and go on with life...
and sometimes, love is just awesome... ;)

But all I have to say is...Love can be a wonderful thing if you find the right person... :)

But be careful on who you choose to fall in love with


that's very true. but there's one thing i don't agree with in that. "choosing" & "falling in love" shouldn't go in the same sentence. yes, you can choose who to love & who not to love, but when you say "fall in love" it has this conotation of not being able to control your own emotions. if that's how you feel then it's not truly love. but, i'm talking about semantics here. other than that, i agree. :) be careful who you choose to give your heart to (but at the same time, give it to everyone as an out-pouring of God's Love through you).

hehehe....I'm not good at talking about this love stuff...

All I know is that I have a wonderful boyfriend who I'm going ot marry in a year and a half ;) LOL ... ;D

congrats alienchick ;D

It can sometimes take a long time to fall out of love. In fact it's probably better to take your time to "fall out of love" with someone you know is not for you...

So here's my 2 cents.

I LOVE MY HUSBAND!!!!!!!

Seems like no guys are posting?

I understand theoretical physics better than I do females. ;) guys don't understand girls (in general), but I think girls think they understand guys but in reality don't (again in general).

Honestly, the topic seems a little vauge and I don't know what to talk about other than say "It is the closest human relationship you will have" Perhaps if there was a more spesific topic (like Dating or Courting, but we already have a topic for that). What about things that frustrait you about the opposite gender.

I'm in love.... LOL... Get to see my boyfriend in ummm .... 3 days :)

and trust me... when it's meant to be, you'll know it in your heart...there will be no doubts or fears...

I know i'm feeling the love :D

Strangely enough I get to see my gf in 3 days also... strange.

I think you're right when it's meant to be you have no doubt. I have no doubt about my gf Laura. None whatsoever.

awwwwwwwwwwww :-[

thanks Scott ;D i have no doubts about you either......NONE!

One thing I've noticed about girls, once you learn how they think making them go AWWWWW is a piece of cake ;) LOL

and making them go......ewwwwwwwww....is a piece o cake too! heehee

so wot things are we supposed to be postin here anyways? its kina vague :-

Eating Yellow snow... That shud makep ractically everyone go EEWWWWWW.

Just a random thought. Maybe the fact that guys think that girls think differently and that girls think that guys think differently is whats causing the difference? Maybe they dont think differently but because we think they do think differently we notice all the differences instead of seeing whats the same.

strangely enough i actually understand that...makes sense to me :P

i think the reason you can understand is because your in love,as for me i dont get guys they never come right out and say how they are right then so it becomes difficult to read them and you dont know if their happy ,sad ,angry , hungry ,if they like you ,or just constapated .so you dont know what to say or do cause you dont know were their at and their not going to tell you and if they do you can tell that ,thats not quit it. thats why i think guy/girl frindships are a whole lot better than guy/girl relationships cause when your frinds with a guy you become one of the guys and theres no holding back or putting on a mask and you can just have fun with out worring about how do i look or was he staring at my butt. so i hope thats a better foundation to start a thread on. :P

I tend to do this
If I'm angry - I say I'm angry
If I'm sad - I say I'm sad
If I'm happy - I say I'm happy

I don't screw ppl around and deliberately confuse them, I've yet to meet someone as totally blunt as I am.

I thot it would be in a friendship that ud worry about all those things but if in relationship u can be much more open about it... :S

Maybe American relationships are just a whole lot weirder than ours...

that's probably it ::)

does any one agree with the last statement i made ??? am i the only one who gets lost trying to figure out whats really going on in a relationship not that ive had lots,but it seems once you like someone or they like you everything gets mixed upand extremly confusing for no apperent reason :-[

it is not really "I am sad so I say I am sad" but more like guys not reading in between the lines, or not understanding the signals the girls are sending. And Girls reading in between the lines to much, or trying to interpret signals the guys aren't sending... or maybe the confusion is that the statement above is inverted but we still think that original statemant and get totally confused... anyways I don't know much about women, I am a computer guy :-[

it is not really "I am sad so I say I am sad" but more like guys not reading in between the lines, or not understanding the signals the girls are sending. And Girls reading in between the lines to much, or trying to interpret signals the guys aren't sending... or maybe the confusion is that the statement above is inverted but we still think that original statemant and get totally confused... anyways I don't know much about women, I am a computer guy :-[
wow that whole thing about reading signals guys arent sending is a real eye opener maby i shold stop trying to read dbetwen lines just incase there was no signal sent at all.oh and i admit i do send signals but there so subtle,thats probably why they dont get noticed.humm i wonder why we as humans or atleast girls sent signals ???

It's not that guys may never send signals, but I think that some girls might think they are when they aren't.

humm i wonder why we as humans or atleast girls sent signals ???


heh... i can't send signals, at least, not to my knowledge... i'm really bad at subtly. (people tell me im' as subtle as a brick wall or a frieght train, take your pick ;)) and i dunno, i don't have a whole lot to say on the whole guy/girl subject, except that i'm sick of my friends getting significant others and turning sappy. :P :-X

From a Guy's Perspective:
1) As a guy, I say what is on my mind. Please, do not read into anything I say unless I move my eyebrows up and down quickly or give you a nudge with my elbow.
2) As a guy, I cannot always read between the lines. The only signals I can interpret are the left and right turning signals on cars. I'm not freaking Ms. Chleo so just tell me what you're thinking!!
3) If I am staring at your butt and you catch me, please, don't be offended. Consider it a compliment. :P

The thing I can seriously say about reltionships, from personal experience, is that they really don't get serious until you're out of high school. Keep this in mind, it will help. While it may be fun, keep it in check and don't go thinking that your bf or gf in your freshman english class will be your husband or wife some day.
People tend to add too much emphasise to situtations that do not, and should not, warrant such importance. This will save you some time and heartbreack.

Oh and please, once you find a bf/gf, don't turn into the people AirGuitarRockin mentioned.....please.


i'm sick of my friends getting significant others and turning sappy.


Best quote ever.

lol, glad you liked it ;)

i'm sick of my friends getting significant others and turning sappy.
AHHHH ITS SOOO TRUE!!!!!

I don't think I'd change tho. I'm too sarcastic and waaay too blunt. It's just part of my character. Changing it totally changes me

thats like the 3rd time i herd ppl say if someone looks at your butt take it as a compliment .i dont know i cantjust take it as a compliment cause i dont get it,probably because im not attracted to the outter part of guys ,because im not shallow. i just will never get why some one staring at my but should be a compliment if they want to compliment me walk up and say nice butt ,but dont stare from afar like a butt stalker. :-

because im not shallow
ouch, mean insult incoming! Get down!
I would toss something back if I didn't deserve that but...yeah that was warranted easily.

butt stalker


LOL

if they want to compliment me walk up and say nice butt

lol... that would freak me out... :o i'd definetly walk away from the guy really quickly....

It would be one thing for a stranger, but what about a friend? Would it be a complement (not that I'll be going up to my friends and say that either way)? I know it would be akward for me to tell one of my female friends that her... never mind, you get the point.

lol oh my gosh you all' s respons was so funny i was just being truthfull . ::)

It would be one thing for a stranger, but what about a friend? Would it be a complement (not that I'll be going up to my friends and say that either way)? I know it would be akward for me to tell one of my female friends that her... never mind, you get the point.


I think, personally, that if a friend should say that, i would definitely start looking at him in a different light.... as something of a freak :o

complementing a nice butt is perfectly fine, in fact it's GREAT. It's celebrating one of God's creations.

...some women just seem to have bad aim when I comment towards them and we go for a high-five. They miss and hit my face instead of my hand.

they miss your hand and your complaining :o i would never expect that from a guy

complementing a nice butt is perfectly fine, in fact it's GREAT. It's celebrating one of God's creations.

Sex is one of God's great creations to celebrate too. Doesn't mean you can do it with anyone and everyone you want.

I'm sorry, but complimenting someone's butt is just a tad bit inappropriate... save it for your wife. She'll appreciate it more knowing you haven't handed that out to every cute girl you've walked by in your life. :p

lol I am sorry if you didn't see the intention of humor in my post...


...no really. I am.

hehe... sorry. Finals are killing all the fun in me. :)

i'm sick of my friends getting significant others and turning sappy...

for me it more really depressing all my friends having significant others and i'm stuck lonely old me...

butt stalker

thats funny

if they want to compliment me walk up and say nice butt

lol... that would freak me out... :o i'd definetly walk away from the guy really quickly....


*Walks up to Beth*
Nice butt....


lol

Butt Stalker
LOL, I can picture it now! *batman theme* duna duna duna duna BUTTMAN!!!!! ROFL!

lol

do you think he would wear a costume with a butt-stalker symbol on his chest and cape?

lol

do you think he would wear a costume with a butt-stalker symbol on his chest and cape?


This is getting rediculous! and I am not going to ask what the butt stalker symbol looks like.

back to the original topic... Girls, If a guy who you considered a friend asked you to go to dinner with him, would you accept his offer? and what would you assume his motaives to be?

*runs away from scott & hides under the snow* ;D ;)

but seriously, and back to the subject... for me, if a guy friend of mien asked me to get dinner with him, i'd agree... but i don't knwo if i'd consider it a date, or not... cuz i do things w/ just my guy friends, and i do things one on one with them.... and i'm pretty sure taht tehy know we're all just friends... but i don't know waht i'd think their motives were... well, i know i'd hope that the one guy had more in mind, but that's a tangent...but i'd defiently wonder what tehy were thinking, because asking girls out to dinner is definetly uncharacteristic of my guy friends. but i ramble. so i'll shut up for now, after realizing that i really din't answer agent's q, *shrugs* that's why i dont' write for an advice collumn